When my son was first diagnosed with Autism, it was followed by PANDAS/PANS as an additional diagnosis. As his parent, I felt overwhelmed and like I was grasping in the dark. I read everything I could get my hands on, searching for answers, but nothing seemed to bring real change. The chaos continued, and I felt like I was failing him—and our family. Doctors, school staff, fellow school parents, and the right therapies were ultimately supportive and helpful in our journey.
Finding the right therapist/ parent coach for myself was also a significant move as we, as parents parenting our neurodivergent kids need support, too! Remember the saying, "You can't pour from an empty cup"? Working with a parent coach is a great help in filling your cup! Parent coaching made all the difference in my stress levels.
Years later, the breakthrough came: I needed to stop trying to "fix" him and start understanding his world. By shifting my parenting approach and embracing his diagnosis, I was able to create strategies that truly supported him and started taking care of myself as his parent.
That shift changed everything. Today, we have more peace, stronger connections, and a family dynamic that works. Now, I also help other parents find their path forward.